@josef I think that in such a situation you should just use a bare EPS32 module, and add only the parts that you need. It's very unlikely that someone will make a custom version of a devboard with exactly the things you need, and without any extras.
I am having the same problem now, trying to figure it out :D
the program seems to work, but I am unable to upload via cable or WiFi OTA
after many trials it finally uploaded again, may be try to unplug also, etc
I let it sit plugged in for a while and then uploaded
I saw your post last week, but it has taken this long to get a login account on this forum just to reply to your question. I have gotten it to work. I used "ESP32 Dev Module" for my board type.
I also used these settings:
SSD1306 display(0x3c, 5, 4);